Sometimes I wish that I could just punch my sister in the face. She better be glad shes not in this state or I'd have to take a drive to pull that stick out of her ass. First of all before I start talking shit let me explain our relationship. We have never really gotten along. I think the only time that we got along was like in highschool. Since she has married Tonay and split that stick that was minorly lodged in her ass has crept up a lil higher. Its always a fight when they come into town and I can say that its her starting it. Just like she told me last year and the year before that. "were only going to be in town for a few days so i dont know if were going to be able to see everybody..oh and btw if you want to visit with me then you have to go to moms house, I'm not going to yours.." And sister if youre reading this YES THAT IS WHAT YOU SAID. Bitch. I was really upset when she told me that a few years back. She didnt even want to see my home where we lived or anything. FINALLY after begging her and pestering she went over. I shouldnt have to beg my sister to come hang out with me. I told her this last year, that she didnt want to hang out with me because she thinks shes too cool for us. OH yeah. I like to fight with her, dont get me wrong I LOVE to pick fights with her but when she starts talkin bull shit like that I want to pull the stick out and beat her with it! I hate the fact that she lets everyone on facebook know about whats goin on with her and when something MAJOR like my brother in law getting deployed (to destinations UNKNOWN) I have to read about it on facebook and then hear about it through our mom. Yeah I understand that you may be bummed out because ur man is takin off. But I didnt even know he was coming into town today until my mom said something about it. All I wanted was for him to spend some time with my little Damian and I wanted to bless him. (side note: for those of you that dont know I practice witchcraft) I am not going to let him go out there without communication with the rest of the world without knowing that my juju is gonna help keep him safe. At least it will help me feel better. Tonay. I really do love my brother in law. Sometimes we have not seen eye to eye. Even through some shit, he still seems to amaze me. Honestly I thought he would have left my sister when she got pregnant. Little does he know that if he did he would be out some where in the desert. I'm glad that he has stepped up and really got his shit straight. I'm very proud of him. Hes a reformed gansta lol plus hes really a hip cat to kick it with. What amazes me most of all is how he puts up with my sister. Man has the patience of a saint. This is where I say good night. I have been cleaning all day, I have a chance to unwind with my love. I have a banana beer and some video games to tend to. Glad my little man is having a good night. He hasnt woke up yet and the medicine seems to be helping.
Another day, another time.
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well you know me ducky, I try to not take sides. With that said, Have you asked your lil' sis why it is so? What is holding her back from visiting you at your casa? You know that My brother and I have not always seen eye to eye. And often times I don't think they understand how their actions and some times words really hurt us. But all we can try to do is help them understand. You know i live by these words "The phone works both ways" have you called your sista for her to let you know what is going on in her life, thus learning about their trips out here ahead of time? Well I hope you guys work it out. It seems a pity to loose closeness with a sibling over perhaps some miscommunication. Love you and hope it all works out. XOXOXO
ReplyDeleteps I love how open you are on your blogs. Nothing to hide is always interesting to read.
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